I have to talk about something that drives me NUTS!! Incapable people. Yes, it is just that simple. I’m sure everyone has that person in life or unfortunately a few people. Booo pathetic!!
I swear I am not a mean person. I just happen to call it like it is. Yes, I choose my battles! I got a life lesson a number of years ago that sometimes it doesn’t work in your favor to speak your mind. You know, you get pushed to a point and you just kind of let it out??!! Not good. Well, at least not in my situation. I am not the person to get people to choose sides I am after all a grown up. So, I do know that you have to bite your tongue occasionally.
It’s hard to have these people in your life but, you do so deal. I love listening to someone “cry” over how hard and stressful life is for them. Oh god you have to find the humor in this and it just means being in the right frame of mind. I sit back and think “thank god I am not so pitiful” and I just listen. Everyone has a different tolerance for stress. I have to stop thinking to myself “are you fucking kidding me!?? Live one day in my life and you’ll kill yourself” again pathetic but needed for some sort of balance. At least this is what I tell myself. If you have to many strong people and not enough pathetic people, the world is not right. lol
Think about it for a minute..
I look to 2012 with fresh new eyes just like every year. I think that we need to reach inside ourselves every so often and make changes. Positive changes hopefully are the result of it.
I love people that need to delete “friends” on fb!! I mean really!! Do people actually care if they are deleted? I think not. Don’t fool yourself. Negative energy is not just given off by one person, it’s fed by others and up to you not to give it your energy. Not to mention it’s a public forum that some just need to blow off steam.
You get what you give and you give what you get. So, go right ahead and delete away.